I don’t know if I have mentioned before that my husband is in the National Guard. He has been serving in the Guard for 11 years, and he is currently working towards becoming a Military Chaplain. Part of his training to become a Chaplain requires getting his Masters in Divinity and going through a military training program. He is currently completing the first half of the military training program, which means he gives up 6 weeks of his summer and has to be away from family and friends, oh yeah, and his pregnant wife. He also gets to re-hash a mini basic training (for the benefit of his co-trainees who don’t have prior military experience) in 90+ degree weather in the South, i.e. extreme humidity. We are not from the South, so while we do get 90 degree weather at times, it is always dry. Humidity adds a whole level of misery to high temperatures.
Along with working full time, he is also a full time masters student. When he isn’t working, he can often be found reading a heavy theology book, listening to lectures or writing a paper. He is definitely the more outgoing social person in our relationship. But, he often has to turn down invites to hang out with friends or visit family in order to get homework done. It’s not easy, but he usually makes school one of his top priorities. It is a tough balancing act. There are times that I just want my husband all to myself, but it just isn’t possible. I know that he makes a big effort to try to keep a healthy balance and make me feel valued and appreciated.
I say all this, not to brag or gloat, but to say I am so proud of the sacrifices he makes to follow his calling, and to give glory to God for giving him this calling. If you told R 5 years ago that he would become a Chaplain; he would have gotten a good laugh. He was not even remotely heading in that direction. And yet, when he felt God leading him down this foreign path, he followed whole heartedly. It has been outside of his comfort zone in so many ways, but he doesn’t seem to let that deter him. I have so much respect and admiration for the way he jumped into this and hasn’t looked back. Yes, it has required sacrifices on both of our parts. But knowing that my husband is growing spiritually and leading others along that path is amazing, and beyond my wildest dreams. I love supporting him on this journey and getting to see his heart for service members and their families.